Coming Back to In person Learning, How are you feeling about that?

Coming Back to In person Learning, How are you feeling about that?

This long and trying year has impacted us in so many ways. As we come together in person again, attending to our students’ and teachers’ emotional and social needs will be more important than ever. Join us as our Montessori Foundation panel talks about preparing an emotionally safe environment in our schools and we can plan the support and provide the opportunities for social and emotional learning and growth that will contribute to the smooth transition and well-being of our classrooms and school communities.
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Year round School, What about my Summer Vacation

How do we balance our families’ and staff’s needs with best practices for students? Have you considered or implemented a year-round calendar? How about all-day, all-year Montessori? Join our Montessori Foundation panel and share your experiences, questions, and ideas. We will address points to consider as well as processes to assess and engage your school community.
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The Conversations with Staff and Parents I Hate to Have! Part 2

We will continue our conversation about these challenging and difficult conversations that we all hate to have. Most of us would probably agree that redirecting the behavior of teachers, office staff, parents, or board members, or worse yet, having to terminate someone’s relationship with the school ranks right up there as two of our least favorite tasks. How deftly we navigate these difficult and delicate discussions can influence staff morale and performance, parent relations and retention, and how legally at-risk we are putting our schools. In this week’s Montessori Foundation Leadership Webinar, our panel of current and former school leaders will answer your questions and guide various difficult conversations. This will be an interactive session; we encourage questions, comments, and sharing of stories and resources.
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THE CONVERSATIONS WITH STAFF AND PARENTS I HATE TO HAVE!

How to Navigate Disciplinary and End-of-Relationship Discussions

Most of us would probably agree that redirecting the behavior of teachers, office staff, parents, or board members, or worse yet, having to terminate someone’s relationship with the school, ranks right up there as two of our least favorite tasks. How deftly we navigate these difficult and delicate discussions can influence staff morale and performance, parent relations and retention, and how legally at-risk we are putting our schools. In this week’s Montessori Foundation Leadership Webinar, our panel of current and former school leaders will discuss strategies for guiding wayward staff and parents to get on board with your program and policies, as well as how to safely and respectfully disembark people who are no longer the right fit for your learning community.

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Community Meetings: The Power of Parent Engagement

Community meetings are key to building trust, creating community, and engaging parents. Join Kathy Leitch and our Montessori Foundation Panel to learn the purpose, format, and tips for successful community meetings, the “Montessori Way.” This will be an interactive session; we encourage questions, comments, and sharing of stories and resources.
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Wishing you had a Parenting Instructor at your School

Are you wishing that you not only had a parenting instructor at your school but that the instructor actually understood Montessori? Do your parents come to you for parenting advise but can’t get away during the day or in the evenings to join a live group? If so, the Parenting Puzzle – The Basics might be just the ticket. Join us to find out how it works and how you can get started with the course you’ve been hoping for. This will be an interactive session; we encourage questions, comments, and sharing of stories and resources.
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Leading with Purpose Reconnecting with Passion

Has COVID-fatigue set in? Are you tired of leading through a crisis? Have you been so adaptable that a direction forward seems out of focus? Many leaders want to make sense of our circumstances and find meaning in their work. Join Kathy Leitch and the Montessori Foundation panel as we discover where we go from here.
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Effective Feedback, How to Provide it and Why it Matters

Whether you call it staff feedback, constructive criticism, or assessment, most leaders either avoid it altogether or, at best, are unsure of its effectiveness. We know that our staff needs and deserve honest feedback about their performance, attitude, and learning opportunities. This session will provide guidance and clarity about when, why, and how much feedback to offer to promote growth and improvement. This will be an interactive session; we encourage questions, comments, and sharing of stories and resources.
Coming Back to In person Learning, How are you feeling about that?

Effective Feedback, How to Provide it and Why it Matters

Whether you call it staff feedback, constructive criticism, or assessment, most leaders either avoid it altogether or, at best, are unsure of its effectiveness. We know that our staff needs and deserve honest feedback about their performance, attitude, and learning opportunities. This session will provide guidance and clarity about how we can offer feedback that will result in growth and improvement. This will be an interactive session; we encourage questions, comments, and sharing of stories and resources.

Millennials versus and Baby Boomers  Helping Montessori and Future Generations

Millennials versus and Baby Boomers Helping Montessori and Future Generations

For me, generational differences came barreling through this past December when my wife and I celebrated the holidays together without our children and grandchildren; they were off doing their own things. This caused us to reflect on what we did as children when it came to December 25th: home with parents, grandparents, and aunts and uncles. Then as we had our own children, we would wake up on Christmas morning; open presents; get in the car and drive to my wife’s family to open presents and have a big meal; then on to my parent’s home and celebrate the holiday with them; and finally, make our way home exhausted . . . and thankful that the day was over. The ongoing leap from Greatest Generation parents, to our Baby Boomer identity, to our Generation X children and their Millennial, iGeneration, and Generation Alpha kids is life today.2

Before moving on to further generational reflections in the year that we celebrate the 150th year of Dr. Montessori’s birthday, it might help to look at the whole generation spectrum. So that we can all be on the same page regarding
generation language and statistics, here is a chart from the Pew Research Center defining US generations.

Also, looking at generation populations, NBC Nightly News anchor Lester Holt, stated, “The Millennials, they’re taking over according to the folks at Pew. Based on population estimates, there are now 75.4 million Millennials in the US versus 74.9 million Baby Boomers, meaning Millennials, not Boomers, are now the largest generation in our country.” 3

It is important to keep in mind that while the most prominent generations are the most populated Millennials and Boomers, we have to be sensitive to the GenXers who are caught in the middle of these two generations. Many are the children of the Boomers and they have children who are Millennials and iGens.

One of the overall changes that has had a significant impact on generational differences over the past 50 years is technology and social media. I remember in the 1990s, when I was driving a van to take a group of students to an athletic event, I made certain that I took the portable phone that was the size and weight of a brick with me. Today, so many things have changed . . .
• I have to remind myself that the iPhone I have in my
pocket should not be used while I am with my grandchildren;
modeling respect and proper human interaction is
important.
• I look forward to when I talk to AND view my distant
grandchildren via video chatting.
• I pay for my groceries at the check-out register by tapping
my phone next to a device near the register.
• I no longer use a paper map to find out how to navigate to
a new location. My phone will talk to me—with precise
detail—through the trip.
• When I am trying to recall an address of a restaurant, I hold
up my phone and say, “Hey Siri. . .”

If you told me in 1955 when I was the age of an iGen child that this was how things would get done, I would have thought you
were crazy.

Keeping Montessori Moving Forward Assuring Its Preservation and Growth:

As I reflect on the generations as they are defined today, I cannot help but think how similar they are to how Maria Montessori lived her life. As one of the first female physicians in Italy, she moved society and the medical profession forward like today’s Millennials imagining life with technology, constantly pressing humanity to grow and learn. Then there is the stability she brought as she transitioned from medicine to child care and education, much like we see in our GenXers raising their families with both parents working away and yet, making sure that their children have the best care and education possible and striving to make the international world a part of everyone’s life. Maria Montessori would be the quintessential Boomer with the experience, knowledge, and wisdom to move life along in spite of wars, struggling economies, and social changes. She had it all in one miraculous lifetime, and today, with all three of our adult generations working together, they will continue to move Montessori education forward the way Dr. Montessori did in her 82-year lifetime— from August 31, 1870 to May 6, 1952.

As our current generations evolve in this second decade of the 21st Century, we in the 100-year-old Montessori world are navigating to make sure that her principles and pedagogy stay intact in spite of all of the many differences and changes that have taken. . . and are taking place.

I believe that some of the top priorities of Montessori education were—to name a few:
• Always staying focused on the child; supporting planes
of development in three-year cycles so the older children can model for the younger children in the same level.
• Showing, not telling, the child a lesson.
• Watching the child’s engagement after a lesson has
been presented.

These priorities are the same today and will be the same in 2030. In order to preserve Montessori for another 150 years, we do have to be sensitive to who is and will be leading our schools.

Probably one of Maria Montessori’s biggest accomplishments—to me—is how she prevailed in international education over 100 years no matter what the generation was at the time, bucking the sage-on-the-stage approach to teaching with a
guide-on-the-side philosophy. One of my favorite Montessori quotes is, “The greatest sign of success for a teacher. . . is to be able to say, ‘The children are now working as if I did not exist.’ I know the children are doing their best when they do not know when I am in the room.” 4

Where generations can unite is in the beauty and truth of the pedagogy and philosophy of Dr. Montessori. For example, Millennials and GenXers often take the blame for “helicoptering” or “snow plowing” in the care of their children. This is eloquently explained in the book How to Raise an Adult, by Julie Lythcott-Haims. Modeling for the child, whether it is in a three-year plane of development where the older children are modeling for the younger children or it is adults, like a teacher, modeling for the child and the parent on how to interact with one another. Remember, Millennials, GenXers, and Boomers learned from their parents, but as explained in the book, the world is different in each generation, eg., wars, the economy, the cost of education, prejudices, etc. all play a large role in molding parent actions. Nevertheless, Dr. Montessori made it clear how important it is for adults to be sensitive to their actions in front of children. “A child is an eager observer and is particularly attracted by the actions of the adults and wants to imitate them. In this regard an adult can have a kind of mission. He can be an inspiration for the child’s actions, a kind of open book wherein a child can learn how to direct his own movements. But an adult, if he is to afford proper guidance, must always be calm and act slowly so that the child who is watching him can clearly see his actions in all their particulars.” 5

Generations Working Together Preserving Montessori Education:

Working together rather than in competition for who is right and who is wrong, not unlike how our current political system is operating right now, is the best way to preserve and promote Montessori education. We are fortunate to have such a strong base for Montessori education throughout the world. It is so well established. What has kept it so strong are the principles that Dr. Montessori established over 100 years ago.

On a grander scale, it has been miraculous to see how the Montessori Foundation, International Montessori Council, Center for Guided Montessori Studies, American Montessori Society, Association Montessori International/USA (AMI), and state and regional independent school associations have been working together, especially at a time when Montessori education is taking hold in charter and public schools.

At the same time, Millennials—when they were the age of now the oldest iGens—have been struggling to navigate a world of wars, faltering economies, and having to pay for college tuitions. . . to name a few. To get a clearer picture of all of their challenges, I once again refer to the book How to Raise an Adult.

To receive another perspective, watch the TED Talk, “What baby boomers can learn from millennials at work—and vice versa.” Presenter Chip Conley closes his talk capturing the essence of what we need to do together to keep Montessori education growing strong: “In sum, CEO [of Airbnb, Inc.] Brian Chesky brought me in for my industry knowledge, but what I really offered was my well-earned wisdom. Maybe it’s time we retire the term ‘knowledge worker’ and replace it with ‘wisdom worker.’ We have five generations in the workplace today, and we can operate like separate isolationist countries, or we can actually start to find a way to bridge these generational borders. And it’s time for us to actually look at how to change up the physics of wisdom so it actually flows in both directions, from old to young and from young to old.” 6

Taking advantage of Boomers’ age and experience in leading our Montessori schools, that now go well beyond just private—proprietary and independent nonprofit—schools to include charter and public schools. It is important to point out that the Millennials who are arriving on the school scene “[Millennials] are the most diverse adult generation in American history. About one-third are foreign born and almost half are non-white.” 7 “Millennial teachers value four key attributes: being mentored, learning from peers and colleagues, improving themselves to have impact, and achieving financial security.” 8

Over its century of existence, Montessori schools have kept up and often surpassed traditional education, as author Julie Lythcott-Haims stated in her book, “Take Montessori education, for example, which for over 100 years has applied student-centered, active-learning approaches to K-12 classrooms. Students guide their own learning, particularly figuring out what steps to do next on their own. Assessments depend on well-trained teachers, not standardized tests. Montessori ‘unfolds students’ instead of ‘molding them.’ Montessori graduates are known for their creativity and free thinking.” 9

Generations working together will make a difference for the positive in our Montessori life and in education.

Our Pandemic Story

The sunshine filters across the glistening beads as a student carefully counts them. Another student is on the patio applying strokes of paint to a new design. Two more children work in the garden, and several sit at separate tables, intent on their work. It is a typical day in an Early Childhood class, except that these children are wearing face masks. It is July 2020, and we are in the depths of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Our school in Park City, Utah, was shut down for ten weeks through the spring. Teachers worked industriously to provide work for students at home during the shutdown, but we weren’t sure that our students, who are mostly under the age of 6, got as much out of the packets, emails, slide shows, video links, Zoom meetings, and Google Classrooms as we had hoped. So, we were determined to offer what they needed most – time in our
prepared environment.

Our whole faculty spent the ten weeks of shutdown carefully planning. Through a series of emails, Zoom meetings, phone calls, Google docs, and texts, we began to sort out the best way to proceed. Not only were there new protocols to adopt, but also new employment considerations, government hoops to jump through, and all the discussions on how to maintain
Montessori
philosophy and pedagogy under such dire circumstances. Our local and global Montessori communities provided a daily influx of support and ideas. Our task was to sort out the useful items between our small faculty and administration team and determine how best to apply them.

Our School Director, Leah Linebarger, got right to work with the local health department on a task force focused on establishing new protocols during the pandemic. This provided the groundwork for how we would proceed. Our Administrator, Bruce King, found sorting the details of employment law a full-time job as he diligently searched for the best ways to support our faculty. Our Utah Montessori Council (UMC) shared precious documents, websites, and platforms as each school crafted our path forward. UMC Administrator Teas moved from once-a-month elegant tea parties to twice-per-month sleeves-rolled-up Zoom support meetings. We found that we gained significant insight from other schools’ heads from across our state as we shared ideas and learned from each other. Two of the schools, Anchored Roots Montessori and Dancing Moose Montessori School, remained open through the shutdown, and their experiences were invaluable as we headed into the unknown.

After months without income and missing the culminating events of the previous year, closing ceremonies, our school fair, and our faculty end of the year party, we were not sure what to expect for the future of our school. We knew we had to provide normalcy for the children. We knew we had to support the families. We knew we had to get back into the classroom.

After wrestling with all of these plans, ideas, and endless checklists, we cautiously opened our school again on June 1st. We simplified rosters so we could begin with just ten students per class. Students attended mornings only for the first week while we smoothed out the wrinkles. Teachers simplified materials so children could choose their work, return it to a cleaning shelf, and an adult could sanitize it and return it to its place in the classroom. There were fewer choices, but we were reminded of Angeline Lillard’s (2012) words on keeping materials to the most necessary. Having fewer materials on the shelf ensured that all were sparkling clean, complete, and orderly at all times. Teachers rotated materials to meet student needs. Our classrooms looked like the photos of Montessori’s original classrooms, with each child focusing on the simple, classic material before them.

We simplified and expanded drop-off and pick-up so that classes were not mixing, and parents were not coming into the building; children were having their temperatures and symptoms checked at the exterior classroom door at drop-off. We discontinued our snack and lunch programs and asked parents to provide them. Although it hurt to eliminate the classic community exercises of meal preparation, this greatly simplified our daily preparation process and allowed additional sanitizing time.

Sanitizing everything in the room twice a day was the protocol we worried about most until one of our comrades at another school discovered that isopropyl alcohol could be used. It was simply sprayed on and allowed to evaporate. Alcohol is hard on wood, so we used soap and water for our wooden equipment. We have tried to substitute plastic materials wherever possible to save our wood. Others are reporting happy results using foggers, electrostatic sprayers, and various disinfectants.

Acquiring enough thermometers, gloves, masks, smocks, hand sanitizer, hand soap, paper cups, paper plates, and paper placemats is an ongoing task. Teachers created individual packets of crayons, pencils, scissors, glue sticks, and paper for Early Childhood students so that those things did not need to be individually sanitized after each use. Maintaining all the necessary inventory is probably the most significant ongoing expense. On top of the greatly reduced income through the ten weeks of closure, we are all taking a substantial financial hit. As we have learned through the past recessions, all we have to do is cut back, pull together, and the economy will come around again, eventually.

We’ve had to eliminate assemblies, guest speakers, and events, but this results in a simpler routine and fewer interruptions to the work period. We avoid mixing classes, but this makes the prep and cleaning schedule simpler when each teaching team is taking care of their own classroom instead of relying on someone to come in to help them. With the simplification of so much of our day, teaching teams have more time to maintain their own environments.

Masks were a daunting prospect. We started by recommending that students wear masks as a sign of respect for others, and many did. Then, our town adopted a mask mandate, and our students cheerfully went along with it. They have been much more amenable to it than most adults. Now, all Early Childhood and Elementary students wear masks into and out of school and while inside, unless they can stay 6 feet apart. Early Childhood and Elementary students also have assigned work tables or mats to mix less within the classroom. When lining up, they space themselves a healthy distance or an arm’s length from the person in front of them. Outside they are free to play as they always have, but teachers may remind them to give each other healthy space. We spray all equipment with alcohol, using a fertilizer sprayer, between classes.

Other than the temperature and symptom checks at drop-off, increased cleaning routines, and the smaller class sizes, the infant and toddler school days are essentially unchanged. Teaching teams are careful to sanitize work after each use, wear masks and gloves, and infant faculty wear lab coats or smocks, as well.

Although we are respectful of each other and generally stay 6 feet apart, teachers are very sensitive to their students’ needs and give hugs and physical reassurance whenever appropriate. It is daunting enough that we cannot see each other’s expressions, so we can at least hug a child.

After the months of planning and preparation with our teaching teams, a few of our teachers did not feel comfortable coming back to school during a pandemic, and we honor their decisions. You have to want to do this. It is a risk to be at school, even with a mask, gloves, and smocks, interacting with children and families every day. In order to offer the extension for our students, we again called on our Montessori community, borrowed teachers, and hired a few who considered the risk worthwhile.

During the closure, our school’s families stepped forward to offer funds for our faculty whose income was suddenly cut in half when their spouses and roommates lost their jobs. Parents brought groceries and surprises to teachers’ doorsteps. Some of the teachers decided to wait to feel more comfortable before returning to school. Enrollment dropped, and then we began to get calls from families looking to move to our little mountain town from the big cities. The rosters are filling again, and we have some eager new employees enthusiastic about all things Montessori. 

We have found that children are generally better at adapting to these changes than adults. They don’t understand what or why coronavirus is, but they understand that we have to help each other stay healthy and safe by wearing masks, washing hands, giving safe space, and being careful of what they touch. Lunch is different, group lessons are different, and moving in and out of school is different. Most of what goes on in between is pretty much the same, and for that normalcy, we are forever grateful. When I stand at the gate and greet families each morning, I accept loads of thanks and praise. One day in early June, it snowed in our little mountain town. There were our families, having scrambled to find their winter wear, as well as their face masks, lining up at the orange cones placed 6 feet apart at each door and still smiling and giving thanks for being able to bring their children to school for a few hours.

Since it is summer, we’ve spent much more time outside, making use of our patios, gardens, playground, creek, and field as we’ve never used them before. We’ve taken time outdoors to observe native plants and animals. Most of our children now know the Uinta Ground Squirrel’s call and where the voles and garter snakes live. They know where to find strawberries, chives, honeysuckle, and the lavender used in all types of Practical Life projects. They have discovered the beauty of our campus that is so often missed in the summer when our student population typically falls off.

Winter will bring more problems to solve – where to store snow clothes so children can access them without coming into contact with children from other classes; lunching socially and at a healthy distance; how to keep classrooms adequately staffed when winter illnesses make their rounds. And, there will be questions we can’t even foresee now.

Early on in the pandemic, I thought about how few world crises we have experienced in the past few decades. Those of us of a certain age lived through polio, the Cuban Missile Crisis, the Vietnam War, AIDS, the Gulf War, September 11th, the Iraq War, the War in Afghanistan, mass shootings, and a plethora of environmental crises. Our parents and grandparents told us about the World Wars, Pearl Harbor Day, the Spanish flu, scarlet fever, and smallpox. An elderly cousin of mine recently remarked that Americans were on rations for four years after WWII in a tone that made me think, “we ain’t seen nothin’ yet.” It could be worse. We have examples before us of how to behave during a crisis. Following our ancestors’ lessons, we will look around, lend a hand to those who need it, summon our courage, face down our fears, and step into the fray to contribute whatever we can. As we face each challenge, we have to remind ourselves that the entire population of the world is in distress right now. Within each of us is the ability to lighten another’s load with a smile, a few words, or an act of kindness. Now is the time to fight this good fight with great honor.

We will not be the same school again. We will not be the same people also. But, along this journey, we have found the beauty in simplifying, enjoying what we can do together, and the joy of returning to the classroom where both children and adults are getting something essential. When we recall the COVID years, we will remember the lessons learned, and we will carry them with us. We are learning to slow down, focus on the moment, and fully support one another.

Coming Back to In person Learning, How are you feeling about that?

Leading With Emotional Intelligence

Dane Peters, author and retired head of Brooklyn Heights Montessori School shares his valuable insights. Building leadership within a school community benefits everyone—teachers, parents, administration, and most importantly children—especially in Montessori schools where the staff is modeling leadership all of the time. It is critical to have strong leadership during these uncertain times of a pandemic. We will be looking at aspects and characteristic traits that promote thoughtful and strong leadership. This will be an interactive session; we encourage questions, comments, and sharing of stories and resources.
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VIRTUAL GALAS: MY LESSONS LEARNED?

Scared to plan your first virtual event? Are you wishing someone would share their formula for success? Are you desperate to hear someone’s lessons learned? Join Pam Engle, Director of Annual & Leadership Giving, as she describes how the Development Team at Malvern Preparatory school planned their first-ever fully virtual gala far surpassing their goal of $100,000 by raising a total of $130,00 in just three short days!
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Hope begins with Happiness and includes Opportunity, Purpose, and Energy!

Join Kathy Leitch and our Montessori Foundation panel as we explore our hopes for 2021. Using the concepts of happiness, opportunity, purpose, and energy we will build a practice to start 2021 with hope. This will be an interactive session; we encourage questions, comments, and sharing of stories and resources.